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If we learn to open our hearts, anyone, including the people who drive us crazy, can be our teacher

12 tirsdag jul 2011

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betraktninger, learning, mistakes, reflection

If we are lucky, we learn from our mistakes. If we are smart, we learn from other people’s mistakes. If we are brilliant, we look at every life experience as a lesson and we keep our hearts open to all of it.

A child learns to walk by falling down and continuing to get back up and try again. A child learns to speak by first babbling sounds. A child learns to write by first scribbling with a crayon held in a fist.

Our life is based on learning. It is when we decide that there is nothing left to learn that our hearts start to die. We live for a purpose…to seek knowledge.

What is it about certain people that annoy us so? We need to learn how to observe and not react. It is said that the things that annoy us most are the very things that reflect ourselves. May you find peace in your reflection.

This too shall pass

08 fredag jul 2011

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Once a king called upon all of his wise men and asked them, ”Is there a mantra or suggestion which works in every situation, in every circumstance, in every place and in every time. In every joy, every sorrow, every defeat and every victory? One answer for all questions? Something which can help me when none of you is available to advise me? Tell me is there any mantra?”

All the wise men were puzzled by the King’s question. They thought and thought. After a lengthy discussion, an old man suggested something which appealed to all of them. They went to the king and gave him something written on paper, with a condition that the king was not to look at it out of curiosity.

Only in extreme danger, when the King finds himself alone and there seems to be no way, only then he can look at it. The King put the paper under his Diamond ring.

Some time later, the neighbors attacked the Kingdom. The King and his army fought bravely but lost the battle. The King had to flee on his horse. The enemies were following him. Getting closer and closer. Suddenly the King found himself standing at a cliff – the road was not going anywhere. Underneath there was a rocky valley thousand feet deep. If he jumped into it, he would be finished… and he could not turn around because it was a small road… the sound of enemy’s horses was approaching fast. The King became restless. There seemed to be no way.

Then suddenly he saw the Diamond in his ring shining in the sun, and he remembered the message hidden in the ring. He opened the diamond and read the message. The message was – ” THIS TOO SHALL PASS”

The King read it. Again read it again. Suddenly something struck him- Yes ! This too will pass. Only a few days ago, I was enjoying my kingdom. I was the mightiest of all the Kings. Yet today, the Kingdom and all its pleasures have gone. I am here trying to escape from enemies. Like those days of luxuries have gone, this day of danger too will pass. A calm came on his face. He kept standing there. The place where he was standing was full of natural beauty. He had never known that such a beautiful place was also a part of his Kingdom.

The revelation of the message had a great effect on him. He relaxed and forgot about those following him. After a few minutes he realized that the noise of the horses and the enemy coming was receding. They moved into some other part of the mountains and were nowhere near him.

The King was very brave. He reorganized his army and fought again. He defeated the enemy and regained his empire. When he returned to his empire after victory, he was received with much fanfare. The whole capital was rejoicing in the victory.

Everyone was in a festive mood. Flowers were being showered on the King from every house, from every corner. People were dancing and singing. For a moment the King said to himself, ”I am one of the bravest and greatest Kings. It is not easy to defeat me.» With all the reception and celebration he saw, an ego emerged in him.

Suddenly the Diamond on his ring flashed in the sunlight and reminded him of the message. He open it and read it again: “THIS TOO SHALL PASS”.

He became silent. His face went through a total change – from the egoist he moved to a state of utter humbleness. If this too is going to pass, it is not yours. The defeat was not yours, the victory is not yours. You are just a watcher. Everything passes by. We are witnesses of all this. We are the perceivers. Life comes and goes. Happiness comes and goes. Sorrow comes and goes.

Now as you have read this story, just sit silently and evaluate your own life. This too will pass. Think of the moments of joy and victory in your life. Think of the moment of Sorrow and Defeat. Are they permanent? They all come and pass away.

Life just passes away. There is nothing permanent in this world. Every thing changes except the law of change. Think over it from your own perspective. You have seen all the changes. You have survived all setbacks, all defeats and all sorrows. All have passed away. The problems in the present, they too will pass away. Because nothing remains forever. Joy and sorrow are the two faces of the same coin. They both will pass away.

You are just a witness of change. Experience it, understand it, and enjoy the present moment – this too shall pass.

The ABC of genuine happiness

08 fredag jul 2011

Posted by astridterese in Å være menneske, Betraktninger, Helse

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happiness, reflection

Thankful

08 søndag mai 2011

Posted by astridterese in Betraktninger, Bibliotek

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betraktninger, Bilder, people, picture, reflection

Good thinking!

07 fredag jan 2011

Posted by astridterese in Å være menneske, Betraktninger, Dikt

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betraktninger, death, Dikt, life, poem, poetry, reflection, sitat, time

A short walk is so difficult,
when no one walks with you.
But a long journey is just like few steps
when you walk with someone
who loves and cares for you.

—*—

We always look and care for the person
whom we love the most.
But we fail to look back at those
who love us the most.

—*—

Death’s not the greatest loss in life.
The greatest loss is when
relationships die inside us while
we are still alive.

—*—

Life is not about the people
who act true on your face.
Its about the people who
remain true behind your back.

—*—

Time decides whom you meet in life.
Your heart decides whom you want in life.
But your behavious decides
who will stay in your life.

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